The Good, Bad, and Ugly
I have been dating this wonderful girl for the last couple of weeks. She is kind a sweet and everything, but I am not that attracted to her. I am not sure why, and I do not want to spend time analyzing why. Here is the conundrum. Typically, I would have broken it off as soon as I figure out there is no chemistry. However this time, there is this inner voice that is telling me to wait until after things get physical. I have been the typical good guy so far, and that hasn’t done much for me. I am tempted to test the dark side. I know what I am doing is wrong on multiple levels, but when I am trying to transform myself in other arenas, why not this?
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By rageyone, December 13, 2006 @ 2:03 pm
Why do yu think you need to wait until after it gets physical? Seems like doing so may cause an emotional upheval that is not healthy for either party.
By psychgrad, March 5, 2007 @ 12:02 am
I had the same question. Why wait until after it gets physical? Is it some sort of compensation for the time you’ve spent with her so far. I don’t mean this in a rude way..I’m just really curious.
By Pseudosanity, March 12, 2007 @ 7:54 am
I am not sure either. I guess a part of me just wanted to see if physical intimacy can compensate for other shortcomings. I am fairly certain it is not a compensation or anything, for had it been the case a lot of people owe a ton in back dues 😉